You were not born with the direct connection to God, but you can directly connect to the spirit of God to receive an abundant flow of spiritual blessings.
From birth, our minds are conditioned to learn to survive and live without a direct connection to God, and there are negative forces in your life keeping you separate from Him. But at every moment, you have the power to make choices to bring you closer to Him.
The first choice is to desire more God in your life. The second choice is to always surrender to peace and love no matter what. Closeness to God and increasing the abundance of spiritual wealth should be the #1 focus in your life. Nothing else comes close to matter as much, and all other blessings will be the product of your connection with God.